#LET IT GO..............

Have you heard the theme song "Let it go"  of the animated film "Frozen"? Of course , you have! Who hasn't , right? In your life , at some point , you have to let people go from your life. Not only people , sometimes you have to let their memories fade away instead of dragging it back from your memory attic. Sure , it would hurt like hell. You think of all excuses of not letting them go . But trust me , that would never work in anything - be that a friendship or a relationship. Sometimes, its all about letting them go.

Let it go because things between you and them are not same anymore. People grow apart and you realize that both of you want different things from your life , no longer understand or connect with each other. In such a case,  let them go instead of forcing them to stay with you. It will do nothing but suffocate both of you. 

Let go because the trust and loyalty between you isn't there anymore. If you know in your heart that you can't trust this person and he or she cannot be loyal , then you need to ask yourself why this person is in your life. Without any doubt, loyalty and trust are the backbone of any relationship or friendship. If it lacks both , it feels like nothing but a mere contract. 

Ask me , I know the pain of letting people go. I had this awesome friend and we swore to be the best of friends for the rest of our lives. But as time went by , we began to grew distant. Of course , I didn't complain and thought we both needed a break. But then , when she began to hang out with others and started avoiding us completely , it did hurt. It did hurt a lot. It was like an intuition , a haunting dream. And the saddest part was I couldn't do anything to save that broken friendship. No matter how much I try to forget , how much I try to forgive , that old warmness in our friendship can never come back.  It was frozen with time , I couldn't retrieve it back. So the choice with me was to let her go. And I did that. I just let her go. Unceremoniously. Without looking back. Without any words. It was as easy like cutting a chord.

But it did teach me a few things. It did teach me to be in the company of someone who is proud to have you in his or her life and will make that known to you and rest of the world. Be in the company of someone who won't gamble with your heart and mind simply because he or she knows you are not going anywhere. If someone is putting you down , competing with you , not paying attention to you , embarrassing you in front of others , remove the negativity from your life as soon as possible. Respect yourself enough to be able to walk away.

Find someone who makes you feel worthwhile and worthy. Find someone who fights to have you in his or her life. Find someone who feels how lucky he or she is to have you. Find someones who acknowledges everything you have done and will do. Don't waste your time on anything less.

PS. Yes , I just did take my frustration out and it helped!!!!!!

LoVe MoRe & sMiLe OfTeN!!!!!!!!!!

This is Midnight girl signing out..................:D :D