BEWARE OF BACKSTABBERS!!!!!!

You know its sickening when people come to you and say , "Hey , What's all this I'm hearing about you ?". Its  worse when we ask them from where on earth they did hear all this , they just give this superior smirk and goes "Oh no , A little bird told me!!!!"...And its even more disheartening to know that the above-stated "little birds" are the ones you thought to be your friends , or worse your best-friends.

They call this as "back-stabbing" or "talking behind the back." Even Julius Caesar , the Mighty Warrior , was backstabbed ! ( Remember the famous "et tu brute?")  You had/have (or may have/had) friends who act all sweet to you and once you turn back , they start bitching about you quite vigorously. Or even worse , the moment they get to know something fishy about you , they don't have the guts to ask that to your face. Either they try their level best to know what is happening from outside and prepare a much more interesting version and will continue with their "back-stabbing". Or they have the usual "emotional drama". They go like "Come on! Spill the beans....We are your "best" friends. We won't breathe anything to a living soul!!!". And trust me , when I say you this , the whole town gets to know what happened in your life by the next day.

I don't believe friendship is updating your timeline with "friendship quotes" and tagging as many people as you can on Friendship Day. Neither it is the sweet talking and telling how much they love and care for you or miss you. Nor it is sitting with you , hanging out with you for 24x7 or cracking jokes. It is being there for you when you need them the most. If they are your true friends , the moment they get to know something about you , "you" will be the first person they will be inquiring about it. Or the moment something worth sharing happens in your life ( Be it a fling or a top-secret) , you will ring them up the next moment because you  trust  them more than your life. True friends always speak up to your face instead of beating around the bush and stand with you when you are about to fall.

So, next time , you get to know the "back-stabbers" among your friends , never take the risk of trusting upon them....(again). They say experience is the best-teacher. Learn from your past mistakes and be careful upon whom you place your trust. The vase of trust that is broken once can never be the same again. And never get disheartened. If you are a victim of back-stabbing it simply means that you are two steps ahead of them. Make sure you give one hell of a time to your "back-stabbers" , folks!!!!!!!!!

PS. Keshav .....I'm sorry. Couldn't control the urge to give a proper reply to those who asked for it. After all , it was you who taught me..."If people talk about you behind your back , that would mean you are in front . So STAY AHEAD"......:) ;)

LoVe MoRe & sMiLe OfTeN!!!!!!!!!!

This is Midnight girl signing out..................:D :D